for your first request it should be here..
panda wrote on his UKintel "port" in this forum:
Max TitleBar Text Colour and Enable Glow
Active Max Title Text Colour || Windows and Caption Buttons > Aero > Dwm Window > Frames > Normal > Top > MaxActive (TEXTCOLOR:COLOR)
Enable Active Glow [Opacity] || Windows and Caption Buttons > Aero > Dwm Window > Frames > Normal > Top > MaxActive (OPACITY:INT)
Inactive Max Title Text Colour || Windows and Caption Buttons > Aero > Dwm Window > Frames > Normal > Top > MaxInactive (TEXTCOLOR:COLOR)
Enable Inactive Glow [Opacity] || Windows and Caption Buttons > Aero > Dwm Window > Frames > Normal > Top > MaxInactive (OPACITY:INT)
sorry, the left requests, i don't know at the moment..