I got your pm, downloaded the theme you linked, edited the images for you bud.
Original buttons:
So here's a preview and I'm including the modified .msstyle here as an attachment for you to download:
My edits:
They're not perfect, but I hope you are satisfied with them.
(I temporarily imported it (the vs) to 8.1, just to test bc I'm on 8.1, but I edited your msstyle with VSB 1.5)
If you downloaded this already, re-download it now. I made a slight adjustment to the bottom bevel of the minimize button...(the bottom bevel in the maximize button is more pronounced, but that's the way the original was)
If you need more help, I'm sorry but I'm about to leave my house to visit friends for a few days, so maybe someone else can help you further, mate. But you really need to try to do these types of things on your own; when people do it for you, like I did this time, you don't really
learn anything. That's why you don't see too many people here doing these types of things
for people, but rather sharing info. It's not because no one cares, but because everyone needs to learn from direct experience. I'm also still learning. I'm just a new little baby in theming. So---you bought the software. Now you have to set about scouring the tutorials here, looking at all the maps that 3am and others have posted, reading through other posts in the forum here, experimenting with things yourself, just like the rest of us.