There's a way to get rid of that so it functions as a regular toolbar. I forget how though.
Got this from MR. GRiM at
http://virtualcustoms.net/index.phpworks great Jerry
Uncheck this property to have a proper image instead.
Fonts, Colors & System Metrics > Fonts & System Metrics > FlatMenus:Bool
The image to edit for this is:
Toolbars, Headers and Rebar > Toolbars & Headers > Toolbar > Button